self-possessed

[self-puh-zest, self-]

adjective

1. having or showing control of one's feelings, behavior, etc.; composed; poised.

   Synonyms: sedate, cool, serene, collected, calm

self-possessed

adjective

1. having control of one's emotions, etc

Other Word Forms

• self-possession noun
• self-possessedly adverb
• unself-possessed adjective

Word History and Origins

Origin of self-possessed¹

First recorded in 1760–70

Example Sentences

According to this account, Camilla was "self-possessed enough when they arrived at Paddington to jump off the train, find a guy in uniform and say 'That man just attacked me,' and he was arrested".

From BBC

"Mark is far more self-possessed and septical, possibly, of this company," says the 51-year-old, who played manager Ben Wyatt in comedy Parks and Recreation.

From BBC

My wise, self-possessed, inspirational friend says, “Cultivate your happy,” to balance the scales.

From Salon

Even more frightening is that she presents as intelligent and self-possessed.

From Salon

Through the school office she arranged to buy the piece for $250, and she soon became friendly with Ms. Mackler, a brassy, self-possessed presence at the school.

From New York Times